Seek For The One Who Understands You…

Everyone in the world are looking and searching for true love.

Seeking for a love that’s so sweet which will brighten up your day and everyday seems to be a sunny day. We all know that it’s easy to fall in love with someone but it’s not easy maintaining it.

Everyone are seeking and pursuing own happiness; no doubt that people are also seeking for someone who really love and understand them.

There is nothing as a perfect relationship but here’s one special thing take makes a relationship seems to be perfect and last forever and that “understanding”.

- They know the best way to comfort you when you are sad.

- They know what’s your fear and will protect your from being harm again.

- They know what your favorite food and will safe the last piece for you.

- They know what makes you smile and will make sure it’ll make you smile when you are down.

- They know how make you feel secure when you are in fear.

- They know you’ll always worry and concern and will send you a simple message tell you he/ she is fine.

- They will never give up on explaining their mistakes just to make you understand.

- They know your behavior and will advise you to stop doing things that you might regret for the rest of your life.

For my personal view, to make someone happy and comfortable is to make and keep things simple. Complexity doesn’t mean perfection.

Remembrance of a Brother...

Raymond Ong

Passed away:
19 Nov 2008

Although I don’t really got to chance to know him better, through out all this years of knowing him, he’s a great person to talk to, always encourages, never take in negative thoughts, funny, joyful, a person with a big heart and always hold on to his faith.

He has gone to a better place and we’ll definitely miss him especially his 5 children and beautiful wife. Your laughter, jokes, encouragement and testimonies will always in our heart.

Blessings flow to Raymond’s family and love ones. Let strength, faith, joy, happiness, health, love, patience, courage and wisdom to rain upon his family.

His family shall be strong and live in life of abundance.

“We can’t promise tomorrow but we can let our love ones know how much we really love them now.”

A Perfect Gift for Christmas…

Wohoo… Christmas is around the corner. Some of us are busying with their Christmas preparation and gifts hunting. Looking and thinking for the best gift to their love ones. Decorating their house with Christmas lightings and most importantly Christmas tree.

As I aware of this season, I can only use one word to describe Christmas…. “BUSY”…

Too busy with shopping, preparations, thinking how to make your love ones happy during Christmas. Well, yes, it’s really worth it to see your love ones having a smile on their face. But then, don’t be to busy until you neglected what’s really important in your life and someone who needs you the most.

What’s perfect gift for Christmas?

Your family members might come and approach you with a list of stuff they want for Christmas. Some might be expensive, hard to get and unnecessary. Well, I guess it’s normal for people to give request and know what the best gift of the year is.

I still remember there’s one time my mom came up to me tell me this:-

“Son, do you know that’s the best gift you had given to me?” she asked.
“Hmmm… what’s that?” I asked.
“It’s the mother’s day card that you made for me by ourselves.” she replied.
“But that’s very cheap and it doesn’t cost much.” I asked with curious.
“When I look on that card, I can imagine your little hands doing all the designing and most importantly is the effort you put on the card.” she said.

This really put a smile on my face.

Do you ever encounter your love ones keep telling you not to spend anything for him/ her for Christmas? For me personally, these are the people that really love me and understand me the most.

They know that you’ll be spending a lot during Christmas; food, parties, gifts, entertainments and last but not least your existing commitments. We know pretty well that they are saying this it’s because they are concern and care for you. Funny thing is that they might feel sad when you brought something them an expensive gift for them.

So, what is the perfect gift for Christmas?

A hand made Christmas card, cook Christmas dinner, and give your love one a long and romantic kiss in the Christmas morning. Besides all these, most importantly to be home for Christmas and spending good time with your love ones…

In this point of time, I suddenly feel so sad. Not sure why…
Anyway, I realized something; your siblings and friends might come to you and said they want this and that but your parents and your true love will say “No, don’t spend for me in Christmas. Keep it as your savings or use it during emergency.”

I really thankful to these people in my life, they really concern about my everything and they know the burdens and responsibility that I’m carrying.

“So, what do you want for Christmas if you don’t want me to spend?”

“Just spend your Christmas with me. You are the best gift I ever have.”

Wow, how sweet that sound. It’s just so touched to know that all they want for Christmas is you and only you.

If you don’t know what to give to your love ones for Christmas, just look in to their eyes and the answer is there.

Merry Christmas to you all.

Given…

To give what can be given,
To love what is right.

Nourish them with love,
Sprinkle them with joy and gladness.

Time to realize, time to appreciate.

Come and understand my intuitions,
Come touch my heart and fill me.
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Don’t take it as sympathy,
Just keep it with sincerity.

Pressing On with Every Strength...

We had the same smile but too many years have passed since then,
Find we grudgingly accept the changing scenery,

So I abandon my useless pride to bring kindness to this world,
I got to say; even if you show courage and pretend to be strong you can’t live alone
That day’s promise still remains deep in my heart,
This life goes on...
You must not forget it,
Don’t let go, this vast land and your true friends…

To My Child...

My child,

I know you had been through a lot of challenges in life. I’m glad that you are still holding on to live through each day in such cruel world.

When you think of me, I’m always beside you. It’s just that sometimes you can’t sense me with your disturbing thoughts.

You are not alone.

I acknowledge every single feeling you are having.

Everyday you start your day, I had already prepare blessings along your way. As you drive everyday to work, I hope that you’ll acknowledge my painting along your way and places that I know you will go everyday.

The Sky, the Sun, the breezing wind, the people, the sceneries, the birds, the kids, the old folds and many more, hope you see it all.

I know what touch your heart and that makes you smile.

When you are feeling low and sad, your eyes are blinded by your problems. Letting my blessings pass by you without realizing it. Haven’t you forget that I can comfort you? Don’t you know I told you not to have anxiety overwhelmed you?

My Child, I’m always here for you. Come to me and will give you rest in such restless world.

Your path is not dark and you shall not worry about what to eat, wear or how to live your life as I had already prepared for you. I did not only create the sun but also the moon to shine at night, to guide you and let you see what lies ahead of you.

In spite of all things you had neglected, my heart is in pain but I’m here for you and will not leave you. This is because I love you.

Keep smiling my child, there’s nothing that impossible to me because I had created heaven and earth.

I love you my child... every single day.

Spending Time Alone...

Time really flies, I’m wondering how everyone is doing lately.

Weekend, I take some time to quiet down and spending a little time with myself. I realized that I’m so busy until I had neglected something which is small but precious to me.

I drove myself around the neighborhood and to some quiet places. Enjoying my ride with my favorite songs. I wind-down the window and I reach out my hand trying to catch the wind. Its force and pressure makes me smile as the wind runs through my finger and touches my arm tenderly.

Then, I thought to myself, it’s a beautiful night to spend my quiet time. Drove myself around, observing the cars and motorcycles pass by, wondering where they are heading to…

I take a stop at the petrol station, fill-in petrol to my gorgeous car and continue to shift my ride into overdrive.

Continue with my journey, went to the night market near my housing area. Adoring that the food and snack, my watery mouth start to get itchy and there goes my diet. Yum yum… Someone please stop me from eating.

Walking in the night market brings me a lot of nice memories. Especially those stores which are famous among us, Lok Lok (Steamboat), Ice- Cream, roasted chicken wing, roasted pork, Dim Sum, dessert store and especially “Stinky Taufu”.

Hmmm, how I wish my close ones are with me now so we can enjoy ourselves here…