Friday, November 28, 2008

Seek For The One Who Understands You…


Everyone in the world are looking and searching for true love.

Seeking for a love that’s so sweet which will brighten up your day and everyday seems to be a sunny day. We all know that it’s easy to fall in love with someone but it’s not easy maintaining it.

Everyone are seeking and pursuing own happiness; no doubt that people are also seeking for someone who really love and understand them.

There is nothing as a perfect relationship but here’s one special thing take makes a relationship seems to be perfect and last forever and that “understanding”.

- They know the best way to comfort you when you are sad.

- They know what’s your fear and will protect your from being harm again.

- They know what your favorite food and will safe the last piece for you.

- They know what makes you smile and will make sure it’ll make you smile when you are down.

- They know how make you feel secure when you are in fear.

- They know you’ll always worry and concern and will send you a simple message tell you he/ she is fine.

- They will never give up on explaining their mistakes just to make you understand.

- They know your behavior and will advise you to stop doing things that you might regret for the rest of your life.

For my personal view, to make someone happy and comfortable is to make and keep things simple. Complexity doesn’t mean perfection.

Friday, November 21, 2008

Remembrance of a Brother...

Raymond Ong

Passed away:

19 Nov 2008

Although I don’t really got to chance to know him better, through out all this years of knowing him, he’s a great person to talk to, always encourages, never take in negative thoughts, funny, joyful, a person with a big heart and always hold on to his faith.

He has gone to a better place and we’ll definitely miss him especially his 5 children and beautiful wife. Your laughter, jokes, encouragement and testimonies will always in our heart.

Blessings flow to Raymond’s family and love ones. Let strength, faith, joy, happiness, health, love, patience, courage and wisdom to rain upon his family.

His family shall be strong and live in life of abundance.

“We can’t promise tomorrow but we can let our love ones know how much we really love them now.”

Thursday, November 20, 2008

A Perfect Gift for Christmas…


Wohoo… Christmas is around the corner. Some of us are busying with their Christmas preparation and gifts hunting. Looking and thinking for the best gift to their love ones. Decorating their house with Christmas lightings and most importantly Christmas tree.

As I aware of this season, I can only use one word to describe Christmas…. “BUSY”…

Too busy with shopping, preparations, thinking how to make your love ones happy during Christmas. Well, yes, it’s really worth it to see your love ones having a smile on their face. But then, don’t be to busy until you neglected what’s really important in your life and someone who needs you the most.

What’s perfect gift for Christmas?

Your family members might come and approach you with a list of stuff they want for Christmas. Some might be expensive, hard to get and unnecessary. Well, I guess it’s normal for people to give request and know what the best gift of the year is.

I still remember there’s one time my mom came up to me tell me this:-

“Son, do you know that’s the best gift you had given to me?” she asked.
“Hmmm… what’s that?” I asked.
“It’s the mother’s day card that you made for me by ourselves.” she replied.
“But that’s very cheap and it doesn’t cost much.” I asked with curious.
“When I look on that card, I can imagine your little hands doing all the designing and most importantly is the effort you put on the card.” she said.

This really put a smile on my face.

Do you ever encounter your love ones keep telling you not to spend anything for him/ her for Christmas? For me personally, these are the people that really love me and understand me the most.

They know that you’ll be spending a lot during Christmas; food, parties, gifts, entertainments and last but not least your existing commitments. We know pretty well that they are saying this it’s because they are concern and care for you. Funny thing is that they might feel sad when you brought something them an expensive gift for them.

So, what is the perfect gift for Christmas?

A hand made Christmas card, cook Christmas dinner, and give your love one a long and romantic kiss in the Christmas morning. Besides all these, most importantly to be home for Christmas and spending good time with your love ones…

In this point of time, I suddenly feel so sad. Not sure why…
Anyway, I realized something; your siblings and friends might come to you and said they want this and that but your parents and your true love will say “No, don’t spend for me in Christmas. Keep it as your savings or use it during emergency.”

I really thankful to these people in my life, they really concern about my everything and they know the burdens and responsibility that I’m carrying.

“So, what do you want for Christmas if you don’t want me to spend?”

“Just spend your Christmas with me. You are the best gift I ever have.”

Wow, how sweet that sound. It’s just so touched to know that all they want for Christmas is you and only you.

If you don’t know what to give to your love ones for Christmas, just look in to their eyes and the answer is there.

Merry Christmas to you all.

Thursday, November 6, 2008

Given…

To give what can be given,
To love what is right.


Nourish them with love,
Sprinkle them with joy and gladness.

Time to realize, time to appreciate.

Come and understand my intuitions,
Come touch my heart and fill me.

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Don’t take it as sympathy,
Just keep it with sincerity.

Saturday, November 1, 2008

Pressing On with Every Strength...

We had the same smile but too many years have passed since then,
Find we grudgingly accept the changing scenery,

So I abandon my useless pride to bring kindness to this world,
I got to say; even if you show courage and pretend to be strong you can’t live alone

That day’s promise still remains deep in my heart,
This life goes on...
You must not forget it,
Don’t let go, this vast land and your true friends…

Friday, October 31, 2008

To My Child...


My child,

I know you had been through a lot of challenges in life. I’m glad that you are still holding on to live through each day in such cruel world.

When you think of me, I’m always beside you. It’s just that sometimes you can’t sense me with your disturbing thoughts.

You are not alone.
I acknowledge every single feeling you are having.

Everyday you start your day, I had already prepare blessings along your way. As you drive everyday to work, I hope that you’ll acknowledge my painting along your way and places that I know you will go everyday.

The Sky, the Sun, the breezing wind, the people, the sceneries, the birds, the kids, the old folds and many more, hope you see it all.

I know what touch your heart and that makes you smile.

When you are feeling low and sad, your eyes are blinded by your problems. Letting my blessings pass by you without realizing it. Haven’t you forget that I can comfort you? Don’t you know I told you not to have anxiety overwhelmed you?

My Child, I’m always here for you. Come to me and will give you rest in such restless world.

Your path is not dark and you shall not worry about what to eat, wear or how to live your life as I had already prepared for you. I did not only create the sun but also the moon to shine at night, to guide you and let you see what lies ahead of you.

In spite of all things you had neglected, my heart is in pain but I’m here for you and will not leave you. This is because I love you.

Keep smiling my child, there’s nothing that impossible to me because I had created heaven and earth.


I love you my child... every single day.

Thursday, October 30, 2008

Spending Time Alone...


Time really flies, I’m wondering how everyone is doing lately.

Weekend, I take some time to quiet down and spending a little time with myself. I realized that I’m so busy until I had neglected something which is small but precious to me.

I drove myself around the neighborhood and to some quiet places. Enjoying my ride with my favorite songs. I wind-down the window and I reach out my hand trying to catch the wind. Its force and pressure makes me smile as the wind runs through my finger and touches my arm tenderly.

Then, I thought to myself, it’s a beautiful night to spend my quiet time. Drove myself around, observing the cars and motorcycles pass by, wondering where they are heading to…

I take a stop at the petrol station, fill-in petrol to my gorgeous car and continue to shift my ride into overdrive.

Continue with my journey, went to the night market near my housing area. Adoring that the food and snack, my watery mouth start to get itchy and there goes my diet. Yum yum… Someone please stop me from eating.

Walking in the night market brings me a lot of nice memories. Especially those stores which are famous among us, Lok Lok (Steamboat), Ice- Cream, roasted chicken wing, roasted pork, Dim Sum, dessert store and especially “Stinky Taufu”.

Hmmm, how I wish my close ones are with me now so we can enjoy ourselves here…

Friday, September 26, 2008

Mixture of feelings


Dreams I had can’t compare to the tiredness which needs to bare everyday,
My eyes turned red without tears to shed.

Holding on to what is precious and fasten myself to move forward,
Taking careful steps and hope things will be better.

Let the rain drops upon my face and let me know that I’m still alive,
Gaze upon the sky, how I wish I can fly but I did not.

I stayed, like a bird on a tree with broken wings,
Sing the song of love but in the rhythm of sorrows.

Grad a pile of sand on my palm, to feel its gentleness and smoothness,
The stronger I hold, the more it descends again from my hand.

Walking the path of wonders and challenges, hoping for an angel will land beside my shoulder, cover me with its wings and comfort me in every obstacle.

Clocks ticking every second and I need to get up to offer what I can spare.

Alone in faith I walk, alone in grace I live; of all these perplexity, there’s one thing that keeps me going.

I give thanks ...............................................................

Tuesday, September 9, 2008

Neglected...


After a long day work, who doesn’t want to take a rest and spend the remaining time to do the things you like?

We all agree that it’s hectic living in the city especially the pressure of working and earning a living. Well, there’s nothing we can do much besides hanging on and be happy of what you are having now.

Every morning, I’ll pass by the streets near Pasar Seni. Seeing and observing people walking around and rushing to work. Traffic is just getting worsen every single day. I thought to myself, what if I just stand on top of a cloud and just look down at the pattern of living in city life. Well, as most of you all are aware, we are just like ants. Being responsible to their commitments and trying to make a living. But, had you realized that you had neglected something important?

In one particular evening after work, I decided to take a bus home because it’s cheaper. So, I entertain myself with my I-Pod and just standing at a corner of the bus station.

Suddenly, an old man came near me with his wheelchair. With his stained clothes and pair of ragged pants, I looked at him and ask if there’s anything I can help.

He started to speak in a very soft voice, so, I bend down and squatted down in front of his wheelchair. “I’m sorry, what were you saying?” I asked. His eyes looking at me it seems like he’s going to tear.

“Do you believe in God and love?” he asked. In my surprise, I realized that he is seeking for an answer. So, I replied “I do.” and our conversation went on further.

Lonely old men who can’t walk living in the streets of KL, my heart feel pities for him.

“Where is your family?” I asked. “They had left me.” he replied. Then I asked him the reason but he didn’t reply. Then, I told myself there must be a story behind all this for what had happened.

After our 10 minutes conversation, he seems to be cheered up and feeling better. He holds my hand and stay quiet for a few seconds, his rough hand reminds me of my grandpa.

“Thank you.” he said. I smiled back and told him that although life is full of ups and downs, love is the one thing who keeps us going everyday. “That Love is always with you... You are not alone.” I continued.

I gave him a hug without realizing that his clothes are dirty. After telling me his next destination, I accompany him to the LRT station.

A few minutes later my bus came and I head on to home. However, during my journey home, I mind keep thinking about that old man. I try to imagine myself if I was him, what kind of feelings he’s having inside. Feel like being neglected, lonely, poor, tired, dirty, and smelly? I guess there are more.

Saturday, August 30, 2008

一直在您身旁…

最近的疲倦, 谁来明白?
依靠自己, 坚持下去的脚步,
克服一切的困难。
虽然如此, 您的微笑我忘不了。

忙忙碌碌的, 但您始终在我心中,
如果可以, 我想要拥抱您,
再一次温暖的拥抱, 您愿意吗?

回忆过去, 许多事曾经是煎熬,
用一切, 换您的微笑。
我的笑, 可以很浪费,
是值得的, 起码我够慷慨。

不在您身旁,要会照顾自己,
不要哭, 眼泪要学习自已擦,
跌倒,学习站立起来。

我是如此疲倦却闭不上眼,
只需要知道您好, 我会微笑。
不委曲, 因为您拨动了我的心跳,
不说话, 只倾听你的耳语心跳。

如果我不是您故事的角色,
回忆我会收藏着,
感动我也会留着。

Monday, August 25, 2008

Will Anyone Come to me?...


Was sick these few days… Until now still yet to recover… I checked myself every morning and if I know I still can go to work, I'll force myself to get up and prepare for the day.

My body is weakening every time when it is almost reaching the end of the day. I reached home, taking out my keys and slotting the key towards the door-lock with my shivering hand. Finally I got in to my cozy house and immediately I feel comforted.

I yield towards the living room and upstairs “Anyone home?” Silence replied me and I know that I’m alone again.

Walk slowly towards the kitchen, there it was, a pack of takeaway-meal placed on the dining table, my heart give thanks by saying “ Thanks Mom.”

Without finishing my dinner, I put away my dinner into the trash-can, take my medicine and head on to my shower.

Lay down on my bed, I gaze at the ceiling in my room and my heart grips and turns sour. I tears, hoping there’s someone beside me. So, I whisper “Will anyone come to me…?” Knowing the fact that I’m alone now, it’s helpless.

Holding my pillow close to me, pretending I’m hiding under an arm.

Slowly the medicine take effect and I’m getting drowsy, my eyelids are like stage curtains closing after a day of performance.

In such tough life and weakening feelings, there’s only one thing that I will hold on to and to remind myself that I need to stand up and move on with my life. I need to be strong in order to care for the people who are close to me.

That is YOU.

Tuesday, August 19, 2008

Seeking you…


In the middle of the night my heart seeks for you. Your gentleness and kindness makes be swell in love and happiness. Your promises makes worth for me to serve and your unfailing love makes me realized that you are watching me everyday.

Breaks my heart for what breaks yours, all I want is to put a smile on your face. When I see you again, I wish to hear you say “Well-done”.

Let me be what you want me to be, let me know your purpose and what’s in your heart. So, send me to the place you want me to go.

Knowing you had given up your everything, my heart was amazed by such grace. Repeating a question my mind, “How can this be?”

You are someone always shows your constant love to me and to those who knows you.

Though there are times I turn away from you but you never leave me, I’m the one who leaves you. What can I ask for more?

Refine me, cleanse me, teach me, guide me, remind me, comfort me, strengthen me, hold me, sustain me, free me, embrace me, forgive me, rebuke me… these is what you to best. So, this is what I can surrender to you.

Your gentleness I will carry everyday.
I thank you for believing in me.

Wednesday, July 30, 2008

我不想再哭泣

我感觉很孤独,曾经以为很满足
没想到什么都抓不到
对着自己流眼泪,沉重步伐心疲惫
再努力却还是不对
为什么,心揪在一起
我不想再哭泣,把我的手交给您
再微笑,是因为我有您
我很美丽,因为有您我更爱我自己
一个深情拥抱,温柔的微笑
可以让我自由飞翔
我很美丽,您的爱让我认识我自己
没有惧怕,没有孤单
在您温暖同在中,爱环绕
海飘航,多少风浪,
只要在您怀中,心坚强
是您 让我展翅飞翔
忘记背後努力向前, 生命已改变
以您完全的爱围绕我, 在您绝没有难成的事
飞翔, 远离灰色的地平线
朝信心的方向出发, 展翅上腾
飞翔 用您赐给我的眼光
看见未来充满希望
_
在世界上, 有一种爱是永恒的,
祂说, 那些寻找祂的,都會找到祂
我已找到了, 你呢?
谢谢祢, 我的父.

Tuesday, July 29, 2008

Old Times, How Wonderful…

It’s been a while now my dear old friends, to work together, make things happen and having a great time.

Ever since everyone started working, we are busy with our own life and commitments. Meeting up and do things together seems to be very difficult already. I personally cherish every moment when we have chance of meeting up and do things together.

Yeah, this is really something for us to remember because this might be our last time working together. Furthermore, we do it with a purpose.

Although we seldom see each other but every time we meet up, I feel that we just saw each other yesterday.
Take good care my old friends.
Cheers.

Wednesday, July 23, 2008

Bangkok Trip:- Jul 08

I when to Bangkok for a visit... It's a very nice place. In terms of culture, people, transportation, it’s just simply pleasant and wonderful. I wonder why there are people saying that it is boring… hmm… Anyway, I wish to visit there again. Cheers.
















Wednesday, July 2, 2008

When I Have a Friend Name Loneliness…


Working late at night, it is almost 9.00pm. I look around the place I’m working now. A lot of empty sits. There were people sitting there awhile ago but then the owner left its chair behind. Believing that my colleagues are having fun and resting at home, spending their time with their families; how I wish I am at home watching TV now and talking to my parents.

Gazing out the window of my office, the beautiful night of Kuala Lumpur touches my heart with its lightings and scenery. I gently pat the window with my fingers, my heart snuffle with silence and peace, then, here comes a familiar visit from a friend name Mr. Loneliness.

It’s been awhile I have him around me. I don’t feel comfortable when he is around. I don’t really entertain him as he keeps cuddle and bugging me.

I look at my reflection through the window, having a sudden thought of greeting myself. How funny can this be?

In that point of time, I know that I’ll be filling with loneliness and depression. So, I close my eyes and start thinking about my friends and people who I care and those who cares for me. Familiar faces I had known for years revealing from the center of my heart, pondering the happy moments and crazy things I had done with my friends. The times when my love ones was giving me encouragement and making me feel silly; it puts a smile on my face.

I feel happy and blessed with the people I know and I thought to myself that I’m not that lonely after all.
Returning to my desk, packing my stuff and ready to leave, I turn my head for the last time to take a short view of the night scenery of Kuala Lumpur. I gently smiled and step my foot towards home along the streets of quietness and peacefulness.

Friday, June 27, 2008

Office Hours, Let's Have Some Fun...


Another day of stress and tiredness, but I give thanks to the challenges I face everyday that make me stronger and wiser.

Working in the office sometime might be very interesting because you can see a lot of unusual scenes (if you are observant enough lah…). Whenever I have stressed, I’ll just stop doing what I’m going and start observing my colleagues. Some of them like to make funny faces when they are stress or concentrating, some of them even open their mouth when they are concentrating and the funny thing is that people start to feeling sleepy, I can see them nodding their head or posing like the Thinker. It’s so funny and entertaining. They really make me smile. Thanks guys.
So, what will I do when I’m bored in the office? Look at the picture above. It’s my new creation:- M.V.B.H.I. Paper Clip Robot. Hmmm, that’s M.V.B.H.I. stand for? Well, it’s “Mental Vacation But Hand Itchy”. In that point of time I just need to take a break. So, I created this funny looking thing.

Anyway, life is not all about working right? For me personally, life is for us to enjoy, feeling our environment, be a blessing to someone and touch life, making someone smile and more. Have you done any of these today?

Furthermore, we all agreed that work is boring, tiring, stressful and draining. So, don’t forget to have some fun during working hours and having a good laugh whenever it’s possible.
Live happy and stay happy. Although life can be unfair sometimes but I always believe that what I’m having right now is enough to make me happy and feel prosperous. So, I can confidently say that life is beautiful.

Tuesday, June 24, 2008

When will I see you again…


Time flies, people changes, lifestyles improving and economy getting critical.
Although life changes a lot, that’s one thing that will never change in me and that’s my feelings towards you. Although sometime we don’t see each other everyday because of our busy lifestyle or far apart but I’ll keep you next to me. It’s always nice to remember the good time we had. The laugher, tears, sweetness, silliness, jokes, crazy moment and lots more.

When I got the chance to see you again, I’m willing to be an entertainer to you and make sure you had a great time. Making silly faces, to crack pointless jokes and keeping our hearts warmth. Although it might be tiring but it really worth it. That’s nothing can compare these feeling of happiness.

There are a lot of people come and go in our life but people like you are hard to find and not every time someone like you comes my way.

The world is lacking such feeling of happiness: the feeling of stress free, the feeling of being your-own-self, and the feeling of playing in a play ground when we were a child.

Cherish the time you are spending with your love ones and always keep in touch. The world needs love to go round and that’s what I always believe.

Saturday, June 21, 2008

Act of Random Kindness...


Past week—things are getting tougher around here. Doing my best to survive and pressing on towards my limit.

Drained, stressed, tired, weary, exhaustion, and vital — these are my feelings for the pass days.

Working hard, achieving goals, pleasing your boss and making your love one happy. It’s that the true meaning of life?

I always believe that life is more than these.

As I sat down in my room for my quiet time, I recalled someone who thought me about the true meaning of life. To serve, care, love, be a blessing to someone, reach out to those who is in need… etc. For me, this is life.

Although sometime life is tough but never forget to be sensitive to the people around. An act of random kindness makes the world goes round. It gives the people hope and happiness. Putting a smile on someone’s face and you may never know that you might safe life.

A hug to a friend who’s in depression, a gentle tab on the shoulder to those who are lost, a comforting words to brighten up his/her day, a prayer of protection to keep your love one safe. I don’t think these things are difficult to do, right?

Search your heart, move away from your comfort zone, take up the challenge no matter you are young or old. You have a purpose of living which means you have the authority to bless and to give.
Although people might forget who are but they can never forget how you make them feel. So, your effort is never wasted.

Cheers to all. Have a blessed day.

Friday, June 13, 2008

To my Brother who cares for me...

You're a loving caring person
Whom with my life troubles I can share
When I need an ear to listen
I know you're the one who will care

You wipe away my tears
Then give me sound advice
That's just one of the many things
That makes you so nice

You care about the things
That means so much to me
With you in my life
That’s all I need.

Brother,
I realized that you had given me so much,
So much that my heart is overwhelmed with your caring and love.
I feel like I owe you a lot because you had given me so much.
Please, let me know if there’s anything I can do for you.
Please, let me know how to make you happy and proud.
Please, let me know that your days are cloudy so can be your companion.

Thanks brother, you are the best.

Wednesday, June 11, 2008

To My Dad, Happy Father's Day...

Dad,
We often take for granted
All you do for us
You do everything so gracefully
And never make a fuss

How much for you we care
Sometimes we forget to show
And take it for granted
That you already know

So for the times we haven't shown
How much we really love you
We're sending you this greeting
That has been long overdue

Although there are times we had disagreement and arguement, you'll always be my Dad.
I love you and wishing well and healthy everyday.




Monday, June 9, 2008

My Fragile Heart Speaks...

Observing people around me falling in love and having hard time maintaining it, it hurts me when I see relationships start breaking up. Considering the sweetness and passion getting slender and turning in to bitterness, my tears shed and being confuse on the true meaning of love.

My fragile heart speaks:- Do you know that your Egoism killed a relationship silently? Do you know that pride pushes away the people you love? Do you know that anger hurts a person the most especially he who approaches you with an open heart? Haven’t you all realized that? Why does love have to be so complicated? Can anyone give me any answer?

Appreciate what lies in front of you, if you love it very much, hold on to it and never let go. Appreciate every moment being together and hold on tight till the last seconds.

Be sweet and express yourself as much as possible, be romantic, love whole heartedly and kiss slowly; although he/she might not appreciate or understand your sweetness but you’ll never regret on telling and showing them how much you really cherish them.

We can’t guarantee what promised us tomorrow but we can let them know how much you love them today…

Saturday, June 7, 2008

About someone I mysteriously in love with...


City life: busy lifestyle, chasing time, making a living just enough to survive. As we all noticed, more and more people are lacking of love, caring and concerns. Human are slowly changing becoming like machine and lesser feelings towards the people around them including their family and friends.

As years goes by, I give thanks to my life which I had gone through so many storms and obstacles, nevertheless, I found someone who really loves me and concern about me. It was a surprise for me at first but when as time goes by; we start to acknowledge each others feelings.

This person was trying the very best to open my stone heart, nourish me with loving words and show me what I had forgotten long time ago. Sincerity and gentleness I saw in this person, my heart began to change. Letting this person comes into my heart and it’s so close that I had forgotten how it feels the last time.

Gradually, this person had become a part of my life which I am carrying anywhere and everywhere. Though, I pray that although this person is far from me, I’m keeping the faith that our loves grows stronger each day and days to come.

Currently, my heart is overwhelmed with strength, loving and patients. With this, to simply grab hold of those gentle hand and lift this person up again where it’s supposed to be.

In faith we shall keep and to remind ourselves in time of hardship and difficulties, we give thanks to God because He’s reminding us how fragile we are. Thus, to be humble and cherish our everyday life as well as people around us.

Friday, June 6, 2008

Human’s Desire and heart


Humans, a fragile creature in earth which used to be full of glory of the Father but then, one disobedience makes a glorious creation became a flesh of unworthy.

As time goes by, humans’ wickedness grows and immorality expended and unleashed. Sinners came more sinful and the wicked become more uncontrollable. The Father had already informed us that before His son, Jesus would come again; the world is full of wickedness and sins.

The love that the world can offer today is just outrageous. Yesterday, seeing couple so loving towards each other and suddenly broke up on the next morning. Where is the proper understanding and the patient which it’s supposed to have? Where is the unconditional love that people talks about?

Why some people like to quarrel? If we would realize, all quarrel start with a misunderstanding of a conversation and expression of anger from one party. The anger expression arises and inappropriate words unleashed aloud, on the other hand, the other party would likes to explain him/herself but it seems unable to register to the other party because of the anger and pessimistic mindset occurred. To avoid an argument, it’ll be better if both parties to talk things out in a calm and proper manner. Tell each other how do you are feel without pointing fingers towards the mistakes. Most importantly, STOP yelling or expressing how unhappy you are but simply open up your ears, to listen and register.

Someone told me this statement before “I would not fall in love again if I would ever lose this current relationship; I’m tired of falling in love and losing that person again. I got nothing to give anymore and I don’t know how to show my love again.” I totally take this statement as a non-sense. That person would totally be a jerk if he/she would make this kind of statement. Totally lose my respect towards that person.

Whenever you lost a relationship, don’t we still want to share your life with anyone again? A person can always show and spread love to others and able to fall in love again, unless, that person is already dead, then your love is just a remembrance.

Take this verse as a reference in life, you will understand true meaning of love:-

1If I speak in the tongues[
a] of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. 2If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. 3If I give all I possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames,[b] but have not love, I gain nothing.
4Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
(1 Corinthians 13:1-7)